Self Element And Relationships With Other Elements
Men
| Self Element: Earth | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Sibling | Friends |
| Metal | NA | Intelligence |
| Water | Wife, Father | Wealth |
| Wood | Children | Status |
| Fire | Mother | Resource |
| Self Element: Metal | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Mother | Resource |
| Metal | Sibling | Friends |
| Water | NA | Intelligence |
| Wood | Wife, Father | Wealth |
| Fire | Children | Status |
| Self Element: Water | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Children | Status |
| Metal | Mother | Resource |
| Water | Sibling | Friends |
| Wood | NA | Intelligence |
| Fire | Wife, Father | Wealth |
| Self Element: Wood | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Wife, Father | Wealth |
| Metal | Children | Status |
| Water | Mother | Resource |
| Wood | Sibling | Friends |
| Fire | NA | Intelligence |
| Self Element: Fire | People | Aspects |
| Earth | NA | Intelligence |
| Metal | Wife, Father | Wealth |
| Water | Children | Status |
| Wood | Mother | Resource |
| Fire | Sibling | Friends |
Women
| Self Element: Earth | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Sibling | Friends |
| Metal | Children | Intelligence |
| Water | Father | Wealth |
| Wood | Husband | Status |
| Fire | Mother | Resource |
| Self Element: Metal | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Mother | Resource |
| Metal | Sibling | Friends |
| Water | Children | Intelligence |
| Wood | Father | Wealth |
| Fire | Husband | Status |
| Self Element: Water | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Husband | Status |
| Metal | Mother | Resource |
| Water | Sibling | Friends |
| Wood | Children | Intelligence |
| Fire | Father | Wealth |
| Self Element: Wood | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Father | Wealth |
| Metal | Husband | Status |
| Water | Mother | Resource |
| Wood | Sibling | Friends |
| Fire | Children | Intelligence |
| Self Element: Fire | People | Aspects |
| Earth | Children | Intelligence |
| Metal | Father | Wealth |
| Water | Husband | Status |
| Wood | Mother | Resource |
| Fire | Sibling | Friends |
To find out your personal self-element, look at the stem of your day pillar in your 8 characters (bazi).